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Recieved: 2004/03/29  21:28  
Subject: Re: [K-list] Passive aggression, the Shadow, and the spiritual 
From: Mystress Angelique Serpent
  
On 2004/03/29  21:28, Mystress Angelique Serpent posted thus to the K-list: 
  
 
 
 
At 12:28 PM 29/03/2004, Sabrina Gould wrote: 
>I've noticed that when passive aggressive types own up to it, and begin to 
>work on being more assertive or honestly aggressive, the pendulum can swing 
>too far the other way. In my own experience, making the transition from PA 
>to assertive made me, well, kinda bitchy and mean at times. I've noticed the 
>same thing happening to friends. I assume it eventually levels out? 
 
     It will. The cranky bitch is another layer of victimhood, showing up  
to be peeled away. A transitional phase.  Assertive and aggressive are not  
the same thing. Being appropriately  assertive, and defining your  
boundaries  does not whack your power chakra like being inappropriately  
aggressive will. Your discernment will improve with practice, and you will  
find the middle path. 
 
    Bravo to you, for the growing! (applause!) The transition is hard, but  
your courage and resolution in working through it with openness and honesty  
is beautiful.  
 
 
 
 
 
 
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