To: K-list 
Recieved: 2003/03/03  14:00  
Subject: RE: [K-list] Partners 
From: Rita Metermaid
  
On 2003/03/03  14:00, Rita Metermaid posted thus to the K-list: 
 Hello Rich, All - 
 
:-) 
 
--- Rich <ulterium AT_NOSPAM barrysworld.com> wrote: 
<snip> 
> For the most part I 
> followed what my heart would say, which was mostly 
> get rid of her but as 
> soon as I did it started saying get back with her... 
> Crazy heart logic!  
 
Listen to that heart. Listen very carefully with that 
heart, even if it seems to change it's mind. The heart 
doesn't lie. 
 
:-) 
>  
<snip> 
>  
>  
> Would Goddess help you? I asked and received. In 
> fact the girl I met was so 
> close to what I wrote down on my goals list it 
> surprised me. However I 
> didn't consider what 'past' she might come with. Too 
> superficial! 
 
I'm not clear here - do you mean that her past was too 
superficial, or that you were being too superficial in 
not considering that she may have had a complicated 
past? Was her past something that could be worked 
through given enough time or was she maybe not patient 
enough or not ready enough to do that? (I guess I'm 
confused, probably just the words getting in the way, 
because you don't strike me as a superficial person, 
and I don't know what a 'superficial' past means.) 
>  
<snip> 
>  
> I wonder if we are drawn to not have a relationship 
> (in the normal human 
> sense)... I don't like the prospect... I enjoy 
> companionship, but it seems 
> like to get close to someone also means wading 
> through their issues until 
> they are close enough to meet you with the same 
> level of intimacy. 
 
Yes, sometimes that is the price, isn't it? But seems 
like something that Goddess is presenting you both, so 
maybe something that *needs* to be gone through? At 
least that is how I look at it. (And sometimes wading 
through *their* issues is the same thing as wading 
through our own issues, from my experience.) 
 
 
love, 
rita 
 
 
>  
> Many thanks for opening the door to talk about this. 
>  
> With Love, 
>  
>  
> Rich 
>  
 
 
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