To: K-list 
Recieved: 2003/02/21  18:31  
Subject: Re: [K-list] please ecuse 
From: Mystress Angelique Serpent
  
On 2003/02/21  18:31, Mystress Angelique Serpent posted thus to the K-list: 
 At 08:14 AM 21/02/03, Rita Metermaid wrote: 
>Thank you. Please unsubscribe me. We obviously 
>disagree about what pertains to K and spirituality and 
>life is too short. 
> 
>love, 
>rita 
 
    Heh. "Take my ball and go home", Rita? Why not agree to disagree? 
 
   You have been at war with your own internet addiction for a while, and  
unsubscribing from the list is probably, exactly what you need to do, to  
end that internal struggle/ conflict. 
 
   Why give responsibility to Felix? 
 
   Why give the responsibility for unsubscribing you, to someone else? 
 
   "Please unsubscribe me?" Heh. Please unsubscribe yourself. You know that  
is how the list works. 
 
    I always wonder why people do that... ask to be unsubscribed, on the  
list. Big drama game, don't they know how transparent it is? Wanting  
someone else to take *their* time to unsub you, can only be an ego game  
gesture. A power play,  emotional manipulation, attention getting  
behavior... childish. 
 
    I've been wondering at your recent lack of snippage, too. Not bothered,  
just observing it. You know better than that but chose not to ...Your last  
dozen or so posts were not snipped, except for this post, where you deleted  
*everything* you are responding to, like stamping out the thoughts as if  
they are cockroaches. I find it funny. Using the snip thing as passive  
resistance, and then as aggression. How strange.  If your snipping was  
uniformly applied, then this post would not stand out like it does. 
 
   Did not wonder at your volunteering to edit the links and then offering  
excuses instead of results. Seen that sort of thing before. It is about  
appearance, ego... to appear to be helpful, without actually doing anything  
but getting attention. Passive aggression. I see right through it. 
 
   You are not the first, to offer to "help" but then not actually help at  
all, but only use the interaction of my explaining what is needed, as a  
pretense to ask for my advice on unrelated matters, and get free  
counselling. <shrug> No big, I don't mind it. "Life is too short" to get  
stressed about that sort of thing. :) 
 
    I guess you'll miss the very nice retirement post I have been working  
on... not ready to send it yet, still sorting out my thoughts, in  
words.  I'm retiring as a list moderator. That is why I did not remind you  
to snip. :) The members voted for the guidelines, it is up to the members  
to enforce them... which I am delighted to see they are doing, with this  
thread. :) :) Yaaay!! 
    I'm done with moderating, my job is to host the list and website. 
 
   I'll share one paragraph with you, tho... :) I wrote it yesterday. 
 
>    Lately, I have been asking why this whole last two months of list  
> admin has been such a huge drain and a hassle, looking inward... and it  
> came down to me taking too much responsibility, and other folks only too  
> happy to hand me theirs. Like the previously mentioned folks who would  
> bitch at me about the list and unsubscribe. They can go whistle. Don't  
> want those sort of wankers around, anyhow. heh. :) The list is rated  
> "mature" and immaturity can take its ball and go home. :) 
 
    Heh. Interesting synchro. 
 
   Courteous self service, here... unsubscribing yourself, is your  
responsibility. The web page to unsub yourself is at the bottom of every  
post. Happy trails! I truly wish you well. 
 
   
 
 
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