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Recieved: 2003/01/22  17:49  
Subject: Re: [k-list] Thanks for all the help!!! 
From: felix
  
On 2003/01/22  17:49, felix posted thus to the K-list: 
 On Wed, 22 Jan 2003 15:41:20 -0000 
"Charles Portugal" <charles AT_NOSPAM thaitherapy.co.uk> wrote: 
 
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> On reading my original question did you respond or not respond because: 
> a) i had invited help therefore you felt it was fine to oblige. 
 
Sure, I responded because you invited responses and I was in 
the mood to indulge you. So, I sez to myself, "Why the hell 
not?" 
 
> b) you refrained because you didnt want to create a karmic debt.... and therefore left the baby drowning so to speak.  
 
Pretty harsh allegation. Guilt trip? 
 
> c) spoke up because your ego felt the need to be heard. 
 
Yes, I have an ego. I haven't figured out how to survive 
without one. The only people I have encountered that don't 
exhibit egoistic behavior are catatonic, and I'm suspicious 
of them. lol 
 
> d) kept quiet because you feared being judged. 
 
Again, this seems like a contentious guilt trip you seem to 
enjoy inflicting on what might be fairly innocent people who 
might not feel as if they must feel compelled to let your 
conscience be their guide. 
 
> e) didnt entertain it because there is no answer.  
> f) etc, etc, etc.................. 
 
I responded in the way that I did to challenge you to look 
at things from a different perspective. Quite noticably, you 
did not respond to my response, which leads me to ask why 
you didn't have the graciousness to acknowledge my response 
by answering the following questions. ;-) 
 
a) i had invited response therefore you felt it was fine to 
ignore me. 
b) you refrained because you didnt want to create a karmic debt.... and therefore left the baby drowning so to speak.  
c) spoke up because your ego felt the need to be heard. 
d) kept quiet because you feared being judged. 
e) didnt entertain it because there is no answer.  
f) etc, etc, etc.................. 
 
>  
> Only the individual really knows where they are coming from and can refelect on their motivation to help because every case is different. 
 
Well! Another platitude to live by... eh? ;-) 
 
felix 
 
 
 
  
 
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