To: K-list 
Recieved: 2002/08/18  17:47  
Subject: [K-list] Love Block Update 
From: mundaneyogi
  
On 2002/08/18  17:47, mundaneyogi posted thus to the K-list: What a surprising catharsis this whole love block, road rage thread  
has been for me, and I wish to report some success in dealing with  
it.  When I created the initial post, I did it with a little humor  
(and many did get a good laugh from my descriptions of bad drivers  
it appears), but the more I wrote, the more I realized that it  
really was an issue for me.  The response I received was surprising,  
as I thought the problem was trivial when compared to people going  
through K. psychosis and such.  And they covered a vast continuum of  
possible reactions, recommendations that I get angry,  
recommendations that I get sad, recommendations that I laugh,  
recommendations that I act childish, stories of like experiences,  
etc.  And I started getting reactions to the reactions - sheesh!
 
Well, I hope you'll be happy for me when I tell you I drove 100  
miles today without once getting angry or upset or losing my  
proverbial cool - nor did I flip-off, honk, cuss, react, or reflect  
any negativity.  What I did was laugh (bless you Steve for that  
suggestion).
 
The drive started out with me catching the tail end of a traffic  
signal in front of a police car (no he didn't follow - I just made  
the light), followed by some signs proclaiming an immanent parade,  
so I was forced to take an alternate root.  I stop at a red light  
down the road, and there's a guy in a black pickup sitting in the  
left-hand turn lane waiting beside me.  As soon as the light turns  
green, he bolts forward and tries to cut me off instead of turning  
left.  At the same moment, a guy in a little beater car on the  
opposite side of the street makes a left-hand turn in front of him,  
forcing him to slam on his brakes (instant karma, eh?).  I laughed  
my a$$ off.  From then on the drive seemed like cake.
 
I do empathize with people who are so caught-up in their personal  
psychodrama, but I don't think I'll dwell on feeling too sorry for  
them.  Because I'm still sensitive to people with road rage, I think  
it's more effective to just laugh.
 
Love and Peace and Thanks for the kind assistance!!!
 
ken
  
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