To: K-list 
Recieved: 2002/04/08  20:40  
Subject: Re: [K-list] Help 
From: Hbarrett47
  
On 2002/04/08  20:40, Hbarrett47 posted thus to the K-list: Jennifer -- what makes you say "partial," or that it has "stopped" somewhere?  
 Who is it that knows this (real question)?!
 
I believe Hilary has a compiled a file somewhere with advice for the very  
hard times.  It includes ideas like hot baths, not meditating, eating some  
red meat, and so forth.  The self-absorption you write about is painful, but  
necessary for a time -- the normal response to catastrophic change.  It can  
be smoothed out a little, though.  When I went through a time very much like  
yours 5 years ago, someone on the list (I think it was a crusty fellow named  
Lobster) told me to bake some bread and go volunteer somewhere where they  
needed help.  This was the last thing I wanted to hear because my life had  
just turned upside down and I didn't think I had anything to offer anybody.   
But I did this and it helped get me through.  Just having people treat me  
like an ordinary middle-aged woman was grounding (even though I was seeing  
and hearing stuff all the time -- I still do, but now it feels normal).  And  
I felt useful, however lost I was.  This is very handy for later on when the  
sense of self goes out the window altogether and your "use" is not determined  
by "you" any longer.  In other words, become a part of the Whole.  It is  
where we are all headed.  
 
Keep talking to us.  Holly
 
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