To: K-list 
Recieved: 2002/01/12  11:25  
Subject: RE: [K-list] Balance & Health 
From: Jennifer
  
On 2002/01/12  11:25, Jennifer posted thus to the K-list: Hmmmm, good question Aster.  We don't deal well (or at all?) with K in our 
Western society.  However, perhaps our inability to, refusal to, difficulty 
with, (put your own set of words to this) ___________________ is more about 
one of the lessons we as a society are being asked to learn, or perhaps we 
collectively chose it as a lesson to learn .. so really our Western 
society's difficulties in dealing well with K is both about us as a society 
learning how to deal with it and we as individuals providing the experiences 
from which we as a society can learn ... ...
 
I have found for myself that it has been helpful for me to identify parts of 
myself that offer me certain kinds of resources and strengths that I can 
draw upon to help me 'do what I have to do for the day', to schedule time 
with myself self (sometimes only 5 minutes within each hour if I need to) to 
work with my parts that are telling their stories, clearing their traumas, 
inflicting their own traumas on others, etc., and ...
 
There's a basic technique I learned a number of years ago and that I have 
expanded upon and that has evolved into my own way of living and being ... 
it's quite funky (to many whom I share it with), works for me and has worked 
for others also.  I'd be happy to share more about it if people are 
interested .. has a lot to do with identifying and working with our personal 
archetypes.
 
I'm reading Caroline Myss' new book, Sacred Contracts, as well as listening 
to the accompanying CD set.  It's quite powerful though it does not talk 
about K at all .. however, it offers a concept that opens up another layer 
of possibility, awareness, framing, understanding of how our energies 
express themselves, interact with one another within ourselves and with 
others external to us.  It also offers, at least for me, the opportunity of 
looking at the adventure of my life from another the persepective though it 
just so happens that Caroline's theory in Sacred Contracts mirrors many of 
my own beliefs.
 
Anyhow, I need to get back to my self-imposed linear day of doing ... this 
was my '5 minute' break to give one of my many non-linear parts a chance to 
share what it was thinking ....... :)
 
Jennifer
  
-----Original Message----- 
From: Melanie [mailto:melanie.dawnATnospamsympatico.ca] 
Sent: Saturday, January 12, 2002 10:04 AM 
To: aster MP 
Cc: K-list  
Subject: Re: [K-list] Balance & Health
 
> Which leads me to more questions.....How do we deal 
> with K in our Western society...when the boss doesn't 
> understand we're clearing a trauma from childhood and 
> can't work productively?  How to we deal with our 
> families when we're depressed and don't want to get 
> out of bed in the morning? 
> 
> Any advice? 
> 
> love 
> Aster
 
Not an easy undertaking. 
Mostly I just focus on diving deep into 'feeling' the critter that has 
popped 
to the surface for attention.  Own ALL of it as MINE. ( the situation, the 
feelings of being controlled by the circumstances or whatever)...then take 
those feelings as the gifs that they are in some way even though I don't 
understand them yet, go home and listen to music with headphones on / 
meditation whatever, and allow the REAL feelings behind them to explode / 
'blossom' (toungue in cheek)... 
...simple eh! 
( yes that was a Canadian slip of the tongue...and no,...I am not for 
sale...due to those definite tendencies of...how was it put earlier on the 
list....stubborn and opinionated....:0) ....yep! )  LOL
 
Just know that you are not alone in all this stuff ASter.  Sometimes just 
knowing that helps.
 
Love 
Melanie
 
 
 
 
 
 
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