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Recieved: 2001/09/01 18:51
Subject: Re: [K-list] friend having kundalini awakening
From: Nancy Brook

From: mgb <mgbaraybarATnospamyahoo.com>

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> And when we have friends
> that are too self-centered, proud, defensive, egotistical,
> whatever, there's not much we can do but love them for who
> they are and be there for them (like you said) through the
> pain, after all it's during the painful times when
> self-transformation begins. In a general perspective, we
> must learn to give everyone on Earth their time and space
> to find out for themselves the path of spiritual awareness,
> i dont think it's up to us to fill them in on it.

Thank you for this message. It really helped me personally.

It's so difficult to watch someone flounder and struggle when you can see
that there is an easier way. Yet, what business is it of mine to interfere
with the path they've chosen? It seems that the people I really care about I
am the worst with. I just want to help, but my helping is really a rejection
of who the other person is. You're not good enough so I'm going to fix you.

I believe I've let go of trying to fix in the real world, but I have not let
go of the energy I send, if you know what I mean. It's like I don't do
anything but the thought is still there, and so it does interfere.

I really have to let go of my inner judgments about those I love and just
love.

Thanks again. You helped me understand something really important today.

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