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Recieved: 2001/09/01 08:05
Subject: [K-list] friend having kundalini awakening
From: Ditteau
On 2001/09/01 08:05, Ditteau posted thus to the K-list:
hello everyone.I'd like to ask for some advice or thoughts on my
friend having an awakening.I believe this is happening to him from
all the symptoms and things happening in his life.While I cant be
sure,and I know he has his own path,I would like to help him through
this the best way I can,even if that is to do nothing.I had my
awakening almost 4 years ago,and it was different from his,although
it comes from the same source.He is a very impressionable
person...and so i dont want to hinder his path.But alot of times i
see him being impressioned by others thoughts on his spirituality,and
I dont want to alienate him by saying they are "wrong"...furthermore
I dont know if they are wrong,as this is his life and path,and maybe
this is his learning,and I should stay out of it.I do feel we were
brought together for a spiritual purpose or in a spiritual way...so
Im just not sure as how to handle this.I do think my first priority
with our friendship is just to be there for him...which I
fulfill...but it does become hard to handle with the ups and downs
and confusion he feels most times..i can relate to the feelings he
has,and I do feel I have "been there"...so you can see that causes me
to be confused as to whether I am to just observe and be a friend
uninvolved to an extent..or to tell him the wisdom I have gained
after going through these things...when I do express my opinion on
others opinions about him he is very defensive...Im not sure why,i do
feel that my expressions come from a place of love,and I express
those to help him.I feel that maybe he has been manipulated so much
in his life that he assumes I am trying to do that...I do not feel I
am,and I feel my expressions come from a place of fellowship.
Most of the times these other people who give their views on his
spirituality,he is engrossed with what they say and takes it on as
truth,as he feels they are wiser than him...and I sit back and feel I
know that they are truly not helping him and say nothing or just
express my OWN view on the subject...but as quick as he was totally
engrossed in their truth about his situation,he just as quickly
brushes them aside and their ideas...but in the inbetween time,it
seems he conflicts with me...but once he brushes them aside we are
back as before...with no conflict.
I have never dealt with this,and am not sure how to handle it,and not
sure exactly what is happening here...I have thought lately the best
course of action is to tell him the most important thing is for him
to find out for himself..read investigate and take YOUR truth out of
the knowledge you gain...maybe this is what he is doing(and I know
this is the best course and truly the only way for anyone to gain
wisdom)...I just dont understand the conflict aspect we share at
these times....If anyone has any ideas on the situation I appreciate
your response.Thank you.
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