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Recieved: 2001/05/15  19:47  
Subject: [K-list] Fulfilment 
From: Christopher Wynter
  
On 2001/05/15  19:47, Christopher Wynter posted thus to the K-list:  
>A need 
>          the expression 
>          of our perception of lack 
> 
>          something 
>                  that we have forgotten 
>                          already exists 
>                                  within us
  
Whether we are conscious of our needs or not 
we will project them outside of ourselves 
in order to find fulfilment.
 
What we attract to ourselves is the reflection of 
the need we project .. a reflection of that part of us 
we love, hate, fear, accept of reject.
 
This is the principle of the mirror.
 
Our reaction to the mirror is a reflection 
of our attitude to that part of ourselves.
 
What some call empathy 
  is the degree to which 
  some person fulfills our unconscious need.
 Thus, it is often found that, unless one is very careful, 
within therapy and especially group therapy ..
 
that one can take on the unconscious projections 
of either the therapist .. or another member of the group 
in order to fulfil our perception of lack.
 This is the energy of transference ..
 
which can present itself as another personality layer 
or dimension .. and which covers up the original issue 
for which therapy was sought ...
 
until one can fully sever any ties created 
during the therapeutic process.
   I have seen and worked with many cases 
  of multiple personality disorder 
  resulting from unconscious transference 
  which took place during what is loosely called 
  a therapeutic process.
 
cw
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