To: K-list
Recieved: 2001/05/10 22:23
Subject: [K-list] boundaries
From: Cleocatras
On 2001/05/10 22:23, Cleocatras posted thus to the K-list:
Christopher:
Logging all your alpha/numerically documented attributes within the checklist
of qualifying guidelines of the DSM5, I can conclude by this checklist of
criteria that you have qualified for the diagnoses (to which the rest of us
are suffering from) your Narcisstic Personality Disorder as well as Obsessive
Compulsive Personality... not to be confused with OCD, Obsessive Compulsive
Disorder.
And then, of course, we cannot overlook the issue of the fact that you
repeatedly and consistently remain aloof and uncaring while tearing down
people that are no sincere concern of yours, and blatantly without consent,
this is unethical and all about YOU and not them at all. You may be advised
to ask permission to proceed into deeper waters when toying with the mental
health of others, particularly pertaining to MPD and PTSD... inappropriate
resposes can trigger some severe episodes in your victims and this can only
ethically be done within the confines of a consenting situation. Frankly, I
wish you would do at least equal time... that is, as much time fixing
yourself as you do attempting to fix others. Being pushy, icey cold and
unconnected is not the way to go about it in any case. If you wish to compare
your conduct to Angelique's, I can tell you it does not compare... she has
proven herself over and over again how she truly and sincerely cares, and
loves and acts in love and with love -- in contrast to you, I have first hand
knowledge that she dilligently does ask for permission.
Whether she suffers during attachment or not, she inevitably will recover and
be all the better for it. You cannot do therapy without Empathy and expect
your subject to respond to you. Perhaps your burnout is more about lack of
success than about attachments.
Furthermore, unwanted healings are more likely a source of your burnout,
since you wont find the recipient in any significant way grateful to you for
it. I would not define your approach impartial as you are trying to justify,
I would call it condescending.
Cat
Thumb ...
earth element ..
base chakra ..
how I see myself and
my relationship with the world
what I use to balance and stabilize myself
and help get a grip on things ..
direct reflection of what is going on in the
pelvic and sacral areas .. the hips etc ..
direct reflection
of my relationship with the opposite sex
I wonder which hand ..?
cw
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