To: K-list 
Recieved: 2001/04/04  00:05  
Subject: Re: [K-list] Reality, was Re: Imposed Silence 
From: Wim Borsboom
  
On 2001/04/04  00:05, Wim Borsboom posted thus to the K-list: Dear Hillary and Judy,
 
Thank you Hillary for responding to Judy the way you do.
 
Judy, you will find support from ppl. on this list... Hillary is saying it 
right, there is time... 
Keep looking for a solution though... Look for light, not a lot, just a 
little at a time. One does not have to think that one is stuck forever in 
that dark alley. 
You will gradually convince yourself  that you are not, in the beginning 
that is tenuous and fragile and it seems endlessly long. 
Once you start seeing that you are not that stuck, the right things will 
fall in place. Actually, one discovers eventually that the right things were 
there all along... but... but... but that would be in retrospect.... 
Do not blame yourself that you can not see it yet...
 
That is exactly what a *problem* is... that the solution that undeniably 
must be there, just cannot be seen yet... 
Know though that it is there, otherwise you would not have been given the 
problem  or taken it on... 
Oh, I know this is maddening, this is almost no help this what I write... 
But all this went  through my *mind* when I was at my wits end...
 
We cannot really help you except for holding your hand while you are 
walking, while you are finding your way. We cannot really point in a 
direction as every situation has its own very authentic characteristics but 
we know enough to walk with you EVERY STEP OF YOUR WAY.... 
Look somewhere where you've never looked before... you probably think that 
such is not for you... Do that unexpected thing... 
It might be yoga, it might be buying a bicycle with a big fat saddle, what 
do you know? 
It might be saying, "Yes", it might be saying, "No," but the solution lies 
in what you have not done yet and in what you think what you will never do. 
Often the thing that you would do last, after you are through with the (what 
you think are) short cuts.... is what you can do now. 
Yes it is like trying to get a car out of the mud, you try and try and try, 
while you know you should get a tow truck, and even while that tow truck is 
on its way you still try to the dig yourself deeper into that mud. 
I'm a man and I admit I've done that stupid thing often enough and not only 
with a car.... 
You hang in there Judy...
 
Love, Wim
 
 
 
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