To: K-list 
Recieved: 2001/01/31  12:58  
Subject: [K-list] Re: [HarshaSatsangh] a dilemma 
From: jb
  
On 2001/01/31  12:58, jb posted thus to the K-list: On 1/31/01 at 3:52 PM JB789ATnospamhotmail.com wrote:
 
°Hi, 
° 
°...something 'weighing heavily', at this moment. 
°What is a dilemma/confusion ? 
° 
°At present, the mind drains quite a bit of energy, trying to decide  
°whether to move in with my female partner, or not.  
°(.. 'funny' that I should be involved in this activity, at my not- 
°exactly young age..) 
[...] 
Hi JB
 
The very fact that you are asking for advice, could be interpreted that 
the relationship has become a serious impediment already.... 
Only once, at the K. list, I encountered a case where the reverse was true... 
Actually, that was very nice... But it is so unlikely that a relationship will be simultaneously spiritually beneficial, that all I can say is" forget the relationship and work, work, work"...
 
And don't worry: there IS a kind of happiness, independent of vicissitudes, 
that yet doesn't exclude relationships as a possibility - but the need will be 
gone forever... And that will open the eyes to "what to look for" and "what to avoid  
at all cost". 
 
Jan
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