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Recieved: 2001/01/28 16:43
Subject: Re: [K-list] Both P&P are symptoms of Dis-ease - Kimberly (Sexual Assault)
From: Christopher Wynter

At 10:04 AM 29/01/01, you wrote:
> >If we are conscious, we either will not place ourselves on the street at
> >the precise time the potential truck, rapist or basher is there ..
> >
> >or we will walk down the street with inpunity.
>
>Referencing the above, I have a question. With rapists or attackers, what
>part do they play in reality creation? Or is all of this laid at the feet
>of the one it happened to? What I mean is, what part of creation puts the
>rapist/attacker there? Them or the 'victim'? How is it related?
>
>Kimberly

Kimberley ..

I am referencing all of my remarks in the context of the client - therapist
relationship .. from the perspective of working with the client ..

I do not condone Rape .. or sexual assault ..
or any of the other things I have mentioned.
Nor do I take into account here the acts of violence
associated with war where there are other factors
  to take into consideration.

My point of reference is with the "victim" so-called of the incident ..
and my work has mostly come in as a last resort after the client
has done the usual rounds of the sexual assault specialists
  without finding a resolution

I work deeply with the unconscious memories, looking at patterns
of life leading up to the incident. It is usually as a result of this
that the client turns to me and says .. "yes, I was putting out
for this .. and I can see it now" ..

  and the result in every case for the client (and I have 14 years
  of this sort of work to refer to) has been complete resolution ..

  although, sometimes it has been necessary to go back
  several generations to find out where the "victim" has
  come from.

The other one here which is a little more difficult for people to
come to grips with is the contributing factors in child
(both male and female) incest ..

here again, in many cases, the child is a contributor in observing
the "terms of love" relationship between parents .. and, in seeking
the same fulfillment presents him/her self to the perpetrator,

In this case, again once the understanding of the awakened nature
of the sexuality of the child is understood .. and the fact that in many
cases there is tribal tradition in the ancestry .. the issue finds
resolution.

Again, I do not, in any way condone the actions or the perpetrator ..
  but I am working to assist the client find resolution of
  her/his own conflict.

The other interesting thing that arises here is that, in most cases,
the energy of victim around a childhood sexual "assault" only arises
within the child from the judgements of the adults projected .. and in
many cases, I have had to work at resolving the "guilt that someone
I loved was punished because I allowed them to touch me down there"

I have also found that with most of the perpetrators I have worked with,
there is an unresolved issue within themselves resulting from an
assault on them as children.

The other aspect of resolution comes with understanding .. that there
can be no blame. The client, in realising he/she is that way because of
unresolved prior trauma experience can not only look at the perpetrator
from a different perspective ..
  but can also invoke the energy of "forgiveness"
  based on "father forgive them for they know not what they do"

I do understand that for many reading this material,
there may be many conflicts and reactions .. and
I also understand where those reactions will come from
for most of you.

I am not making your view point wrong .. but, based on my
work and experience, offering something which may allow
so an expansion in their understanding ..

Kimberley .. I hope this helps ...

CW

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