Recieved: 2000/12/17 03:10
Subject: [K-list] Re: empathy...
From: Divine Goddess
On 2000/12/17 03:10, Divine Goddess posted thus to the K-list:
--- In Kundalini-GatewayATnospamegroups.com, Mystress Angelique Serpent
Ahhhhh Angelique, where would would be today without the crucible of
learning made by our families....
I sympathize, I empathize, and I cry because I have your family in my
My mother could make the most hardened dominatrix run to a corner and
wail... and I am going home for Christmas too....she is a powerful
I dread and love it at the same time. My mother and family are so
excited for me coming. I have not been home for seven years. If I had
never left I probably would have gone psychotic. My kahuna mentor
told me that when he went to help families it was the crazy one who
was the barometer of the sanity in the family soul. It spoke of hidden
secrets and dysfuntion.
What am I going to do...just knowing that doesnt help me.
Well, I am going to try something that I learned about myself while
working in a job where I deal with the public all day.
Nothing gets people more upset, emotional, and sarcastic than having
a problem with their phone service unless it is a problem with their
TV cable service.
They like to call us up and say well, "You this and You that and You
did this....blah blah blah"....yell, sarcasm, and acidity. It made me
ill and ruined my day.
Showing them compassion sometimes wore me out. Compassion is a
discipline to be practiced! Sheesh, it can be real hard. What can be
done is turn down the volume. I found, it is easier to be with
people, if the volume is so low I can only make out the words and not
feel the sound of violence in their voices.
I know this doesnt always help with the empathy of the feelings
coming thru but it does help me deal with that better. It is
important for me to realize....again... that all is energy and anger
and sarcasm directed toward me is just that, a flow of energy. If I
resist the flow to protect myself it gets pretty painful. Instead, I
don't resist and I can feel the energy flow over and thru me like a
heat wave and pass on to the other side. Because I do not resist, the
momentum of their energy goes flying forward and sometimes they fall
on their face because their is nothing to receive it and bounce it
back to them to hold them and strengthen them in their position.
I call it verbal Aikido, sort of like a Tongue Fu :D
My family home is noisy with all kinds of static. Getting beeswax ear
plugs might be a salvation to me. I can always plead cold symptoms.
As you and I have discussed privately before, this principle of non
resistance is how I deal with entity attacks. Give them what they
most desire at the most basic...love. Do it in spirit if it is too
painful to do it in person. Write letters to their guardian spirits.
They do have them too, lol, and ask for assistance and tell them how
You will be in my prayers, love.
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