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Recieved: 2000/07/02 05:30
Subject: [K-list] Re: Love the Enemy
From: Divine Goddess
On 2000/07/02 05:30, Divine Goddess posted thus to the K-list:
Hi Horia,
--- In Kundalini-GatewayATnospamegroups.com, "Horia Cristescu" <horiaATnospamc...>
wrote:
> Hi.
>
> My Guru would say :
>
> "The best way to cut a bad habbit (a low resonance) is to think and
do exactly the opposite (to resonate with
> the opposite state or energy)."
When you think about it, this doesnt make sense. In some form faking
it till you make it only works so far. Putting on a smile or acting
loving when a person feel hateful and/or sad, just eats up their guts
inside. Grinning thru the pain is just that. Empathic people know
when someone is acting loving when the person really feels hateful
inside. It is a very gross thing to see and feel. There is no
congruence. Those people are called hypocrites and shallow.
>
> Consider this as a mantra against all the personality defects that
you want to get rid of.
> In this way you can avoid resonance with low or evil energies like
hate or envy.
Avoiding energies is to focus on them and make them more manifest in
your life. (What we focus on grows. Law of the universe.)Being
judgmental of them makes them even more prominent. In my opinion, it
is best to sink into them to find out where they come from. A new
perspective on where they originated and why brings great self
awareness and can melt and transform them, bringing wisdom and
compassion to one's life.
I would say embrace the evil, transform it, and bring it up to
resonate at your own level or higher. Don't cover it up with actions.
>
> Love is opposite to hate
> Courage is opposite to fear, etc.
Have you really thought about this statement?Most would tell you love
and hate are not opposites. For me, the opposite of love is to be
ignored and not recognized, indifference. I would much rather someone
hate me than ignore me.
To me the opposite of fear is awareness. Fear is good thing too,
keeps us alive, makes us respect things that can hurt us like
speeding cars or hot ovens. Anxiety, the fear of the unknown, is what
is dysfunctional and is best dispeled by learning about Self.
>
> You know, love is an expression of the most elevated form of
desire. Love is Iccha Shakti,
> the cosmic energy of desire and the will of God. It is a good thing
to resonate with it because
> you will get closer and closer to God and to the spiritual
eliberation.
>
> Love,
> Horia.
>
> P.S. Resonate with the frequency of spirit (Atman) and you will
obtain the spiritual eliberation. :-)
How does one resonate with love, if one does not have love within
themselves to begin with? Doesnt a person need to experience love
first to resonate with it? So many people have no idea what authentic
love is. If they are lucky and had sane, thoughtful, and aware
parents they have a good idea. But if, you had parents like me, then
your idea of love is inside out, upside down, and turned around and
will attract people into your life that you think exemplifies what
love represents to you. So then, what happens, is people beat their
heads against the wall because they never get that love that deeply
satisfies them.
The ironic thing is, all have love within, but not all have the
capacity to recognize and express it.
Another ironic thing is, all good things like love, come from within
but most if not all people often have to be taught to recognize those
good things.
I am curious, what do people think love looks and feels like?
Rambling on a Sunday morning, waiting for the laundery to wash.
Susan
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