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Recieved: 1999/12/07  09:31  
Subject: Re: [K-list] Re: Tantra left hand : A question 
From: Lesley Richardson
  
On 1999/12/07  09:31, Lesley Richardson posted thus to the K-list: 
 
>   Thanks for the fast response. Got another one. 
> Well, why on other 
> kundalini lists do they say that true Tantra does 
> not involve sex?
 
Sometimes I shake my head at the way we continue to 
categorize and separate ways to return to Divine 
Oneness. Quite honestly, I don´t think the Cosmos  
God/Goddess gives a damm how we return to that state 
as long as we do. 
Tantra means path. It´s just another way to return to 
Divine Oneness, with or without sexual interaction. 
But when people make love in what is called the 
Tantric way, the life energy of a person gets 
restored, rather than dissipated. So Tantric 
lovemaking is one of the surest ways I know to restore 
life energy to a person whose life energy is below the 
levels required to sustain life. For example, if you 
know what you are doing and you make love to someone 
who is very ill, you feed them life-giving and 
life-restoring energy that can literally stop the 
course of a terminal illness in its tracks. The 
experience goes so far beyond normal sex that there is 
no describing the place you reach. It is literally a 
transcendent experience. Rosalyn Bruyere, in her book, 
Wheels of Light, describes this process briefly. There 
are also very detailed books about Tantric practices 
that are available and they have been mentioned on 
this list before. The wives and concubines of the 
Chinese emperors were taught these techniques and not 
only stayed very much younger than their real age, but 
kept their life force intact.  
However, I would really like to know why sexual energy 
works when spiritual healing may not. There is 
something about the physical interaction that seems to 
make the energy feed much more powerful and I know 
this from personal experience. The answer to it is 
somewhere in the Heart Math Institute´s research and 
in what Dan Winter writes on his site. The actual 
touch is very important. And it has to be done with 
pure intent  unconditional love. But that can take 
many forms. You can generate sexual energy and pour it 
into a person, or simply express love energy that has 
no sexual component and do the same with that. You 
also don´t actually have to be with the person. It is 
perfectly possible to make love to someone halfway 
round the world and to have that person feel it, so 
permission is very important. It is also perfectly 
possible to do stuff like killing cancer cells at the 
same distance. But since our concept of time and space 
is an illusion, I don´t fully know why the physical 
interaction still seems so much more powerful. So it 
may be that those who exercise the energy, with 
unconditional intent, rather than using a sexual 
vibration may be working from their heart chakra 
rather than the second chakra and this is what is 
being referred to as a higher state of Tantra. The 
vibration is certainly different. I personally don´t 
care as long as the healing works. I used to think the 
energy I give out was predicated by what the person 
needs. In other words, I worked with what resonated 
from them but now I am learning that does not have to 
be the case. I do know, from Valerie Hunt´s research 
that the person´s vibration comes into resonance with 
mine
so that may be why the physical contact is so 
important. It´s much easier to get the other person to 
resonate with the sharable wave from you when you are 
close to them. And no, just in case you are wondering, 
I don't do this as a profession. I learned it more by 
accident than anything else. 
Love, Lesley
 
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