To: K-list
Recieved: 1999/05/16 06:30
Subject: Re: [K-list] Re: Death/
From: Holly N. Barrett, Ph.D.

I am so sorry you are feeling such despair, but not surprised. Please
know that mourning is as physical a process as the virus you've got
(you'll feel a little better when you're physically well, at least).
Mourning has nothing to do with being "addicted" to anybody; there is
nothing pathological about it. The feeling of wanting to join the
beloved in death is common, as is utter apathy about life. Your pain
is human, normal and universally known. See if you can find a
bereavement group. They can be very helpful because part of the
difficulty of the mourning period is the isolation while the rest of
the world has moved on. This bleak period is all the worse because of
the "high" of connectedness that can happen around the funeral. But
you will, slowly, feel better. This time will pass leaving you
changed, enriched and further liberated. Living one day at a time is
the only way. Keep in touch with us on the list, please. Love, Holly

DISCLAIMER!

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