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Recieved: 1999/03/07 09:59
Subject: [K-list] Re: kundalini-digest V1 #80
From: Haakon Rian Ueland


On 1999/03/07 09:59, Haakon Rian Ueland posted thus to the K-list:

Please! This is what HTML-mail looks like in the digestversion. Use plain text instead. Also, the last digest was half filled with a MIME-attachment -
because somebody had (probably) a picture in their mail.
Namaste, Haakon

Date: Sat, 6 Mar 1999 12:22:44 -0000 From: "Charles Vermont"
Subject: Re: [K-list] relationships
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Bodacia wrote: 'if someone(woman,man or whatever) is abused I think it =
wise to point out that the flaw is with the abuser...and not the other = way around.' Then she rounded on Pat and wrote 'Your message was =
offensive and inaccurate in many ways...mebbie you need to educate = yourself before giving advise on such a vital subject'.
I'm pleased to say I have come across only a few men and women in my =
life who seem to want me to abuse them. I personally prefer loving = relationships so I have run away from them as quickly as I can. Thinking =
back over these experiences, however, it is almost as though these = people wanted me to validate their own view of themselves as worthless. =
I'm aware that at least one of them was abused by her father, and in a = strange way I believe she was 'comfortable' with an abusive =
relationship, however unpleasant it was for her. At least she was = familiar with how they worked, and was confident she could handle it.
I believe it takes two to tango, and always has.
Charles Vermont

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Bodacia wrote: 'if someone(woman,man or = whatever) is=20
abused I think it wise to point out that the flaw is with the = abuser...and not=20
the other way around.' Then she rounded on Pat and wrote 'Your message = was=20
offensive and inaccurate in many ways...mebbie you need to educate = yourself=20
before giving advise on such a vital subject'.  
I'm pleased to say I have come across only a = few men=20
and women in my life who seem to want me to abuse them. I personally = prefer=20
loving relationships so I have run away from them as quickly as I can. = Thinking=20
back over these experiences, however, it is almost as though these = people wanted=20
me to validate their own view of themselves as worthless. I'm aware that = at=20
least one of them was abused by her father, and in a strange way I = believe she=20
was 'comfortable' with an abusive relationship, however unpleasant it = was for=20
her. At least she was familiar with how they worked, and was confident = she could=20
handle it.  
I believe it takes two to tango, and always=20 has.
  Charles Vermont
   
   
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