1998/04/27  09:24  
 kundalini-l-d Digest V98 #337 
  
kundalini-l-d Digest				Volume 98 : Issue 337
 
Today's Topics: 
  unsubscribe                           [ Scott Coleman <scottcolATnospamu.washingto ] 
  Re: kundalini-l (was RE: unsuscribe)  [ anandajyoti <anandajyotiATnospamgeocities. ] 
  Re: kundalini-l (was RE: unsuscribe)  [ freda <fredaATnospamblarg.net> ] 
  RE: Nadis and their location          [ "Joseph Miller" <joemillerATnospamhotmail. ] 
  Re: Revelling                         [ "Brent Blalock" <blal0004ATnospammaroon.tc ] 
  Re: allnighter                        [ "Paul West" <paulATnospamstationone.demon. ] 
  Spirit guide                          [ "Paul West" <paulATnospamstationone.demon. ] 
  *even* in the NORTH!                  [ melintonATnospamalison.sbc.edu ] 
  Re: kundalini-l (was RE: unsuscribe)  [ "Paul West" <paulATnospamstationone.demon. ] 
  K-list posting Members pay attention  [ Mystress Angelique Serpent <serpent ] 
Date: Mon, 27 Apr 1998 07:35:28 -0700 
From: Scott Coleman <scottcolATnospamu.washington.edu> 
To: "'kundalini-lATnospamexecpc.com'" <kundalini-lATnospamexecpc.com> 
Subject: unsubscribe 
Message-ID: <01BD71AF.0CE9B420ATnospamD-128-95-206-130.dhcp.washington.edu> 
 
This is too much traffic for me. 
Date: Mon, 27 Apr 1998 07:51:08 -0700 
From: anandajyoti <anandajyotiATnospamgeocities.com> 
To: "keutzerATnospameecs.berkeley.edu" <keutzerATnospameecs.berkeley.edu> 
CC: "'DrEOC'" <DrEOCATnospamaol.com>, 
 "kundalini-lATnospamexecpc.com" <kundalini-lATnospamexecpc.com> 
Subject: Re: kundalini-l (was RE: unsuscribe) 
Message-ID: <35449B5C.3895AB00ATnospamgeocities.com> 
 
With the volume of the e-mail on this list on not so pertinent submissions and 
uninvolved with K-related  subject matter, it would be convenient for may if 
the participants who  wish to chat  on a particular thred subject ,instead of 
involving the entire list should endeavor to do so on a one to one basis. 
That would decrease the volume too. Otherwise , the only way to be effective 
for individual listers  is to spend the time and energy on the deletions. Which 
IMHO is a drag, as the time could well be spent on some other interests. 
I do agree with Kurt , Freda, Jan, Richard Sharon, and the others who hold the 
similar views and ideas of reducing impertinent volume on this list. 
What does the Mystress opine on this issue.
 
Anandajyoti
 
Kurt Keutzer wrote:
 
> 
> 
> 
> Please unsubscribe me. Your letters have jammed my mailbox in 2 days. 
> Hundreds 
> of letters. 
> Thank you anyway 
> DrEOCATnospamAOL.com 
Date: Mon, 27 Apr 1998 07:57:31 -0700 
From: freda <fredaATnospamblarg.net> 
To: anandajyoti <anandajyotiATnospamgeocities.com> 
CC: "kundalini-lATnospamexecpc.com" <kundalini-lATnospamexecpc.com> 
Subject: Re: kundalini-l (was RE: unsuscribe) 
Message-ID: <35449CDB.77F1ATnospamblarg.net> 
 
Hey, all, 
Just to be clear....I am NOT clear... 
I am unsure of what IS pertinent. 
I am pretty sure this particular post is NOT k related. 
sorry, 
freda 
Date: Mon, 27 Apr 1998 07:57:46 PDT 
From: "Joseph Miller" <joemillerATnospamhotmail.com> 
To: keutzerATnospameecs.berkeley.edu 
Cc: kundalini-lATnospamlists.execpc.com 
Subject: RE: Nadis and their location 
Message-ID: <19980427145746.7503.qmailATnospamhotmail.com> 
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Kurt wrote: 
> 
>KK: Since your teacher is just down the block now perhaps you could ask  
him  
>to explain a bit why he thinks that 1) vajra is not in the sushumna and  
2)  
>why he (I presume it is he) think that it does not extend the full  
length  
>of the sushumna, as you mentioned earlier. It is not Woodroffe that we  
are  
>debating about here it is the meaning of the text. You can read the  
>Sanskrit if you prefer. 
> 
>Su.sumnaa madhya deshetu vajraakhyaanaadi cai shubha (.s is retroflex  
sha) 
> 
>Quoted in Devatma Shakti p 61 
> 
>The depiction that Woodroffe translates is consistent with many other  
>sources. Swami Shivom Tirth personally  explained to me the relative  
>placement of the three nadis in this way.But I don't think that the  
issue  
>is who is right or wrong. All of these terms are just names that yogis  
give  
>to their experiences. The interesting question is how did your teacher  
come  
>to name these nadis in this way. If he relies on Sat cakra nirupana  
then  
>precisely how does he translate the relevant verses. What in his  
experience  
>has led him to make this distinction. All that would be great stuff to  
>hear. OK?
 
Kurt,
 
It will be awhile before I will see him (at least in list time) we get  
together about once a week, we do miss a few every now and again. I'll  
try to make an appointment later today/tonight for sometime this week  
and talk about this along with my usual stuff.
 
Before talking to him can we at least agree at these points:  
  1)   No matter where Vajra lies, unlike Susumna, Citrini, and Brahma  
(S/C/B), Vajra does not cause a permanent rising to a given chakra (i.e.  
Ajna), that is the energy will fall back to root chakra and not stay at  
the chakra, which it can do at the higher chakras if it goes up through  
S/C/B?  
  2)   Nor does a Vajra rising allow for a chance for enlightenment  
unless the K. can be redirected to one of those other nadis (before Ajna  
when K. has to get on Brahma for the last run no matter how it got to  
Ajna)?
 
Namaste,
 
Joe
 
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Date: Mon, 27 Apr 1998 10:10:56 -0500 
From: "Brent Blalock" <blal0004ATnospammaroon.tc.umn.edu> 
To: "Angela Mary Broad" <ambroadATnospamacs.ucalgary.ca> 
Cc: "Kundalini - L" <kundalini-lATnospamlists.execpc.com> 
Subject: Re: Revelling 
Message-Id: <3544a0ae2ff9002ATnospammhub3.tc.umn.edu> 
 
> From: Angela Mary Broad <ambroadATnospamacs.ucalgary.ca> 
> To: Paul West <paulATnospamstationone.demon.co.uk> 
> Cc: kundalini-lATnospamexecpc.com; kundalini-lATnospamlists.execpc.com 
> Subject: Re: Revelling 
> Date: Sunday, April 26, 1998 7:00 PM 
>  
> I have heard what you are saying about heaven and heall and comparisons 
> and everything.  I wonder, do you know about Maldelbrot sets and 
fractals, 
> and other re-occuring patterns like the spiral/golden ratio etc? I would 
> like to think the universe is like that, everything self simmilar, 
> beautiful intricite patterns repeating everywhere and yet so chaotic and 
> so orderly, so contained and this is perhaps how you resolve order and 
> chaos, with real-live dimensional-universal love mandelbrot sets.
 
I thought fractal universes, too.  Fascinating, it is.
 
>  For me, individuality is sacred. Perhaps it is 
> ego, but to loose that, to be just like everyone else all the time, I'd 
> never fly again...that wich I feel brings me closer to God, singing, 
> flying Hang Gliders, spending hours in the forest alone sensing the trees 
> and sunny skies, I cannot give up, that is me!! maybe this is ego, but I 
> have always wonderd what's so bad about that? I'm not better, heck no but 
> happy with who I am..
 
When I'm reading a Yoga-type book, sometimes I think something along the 
lines of, "I don't want to give 'myself' up.  I like myself.  I don't 
wanna' sit around all day and not think anything, either.  I like 
daydreaming."
 
A woman who taught me Yoga who lived kind of a minimal lifestyle (no TV, no 
radio, no chocolate, very quiet house, etc.) said that people told her, "It 
must be tough giving up TV and all that stuff."  She said, "I haven't given 
up anything."  She didn't just throw those things away.  She traded them 
for something of equal or greater value (inner peace, more free time, 
healthier body, etc.).
 
Only evil people (corrupt-guru-types) are asking you to throw away 
everything you like.  When people talk about killing their ego or avoiding 
pursuing pleasure, they don't want you to give up something that causes you 
fulfillment.  They're saying that those things are fake, that those things 
ultimately only bring pain and suffering, and that there's something real 
underneath it all.
 
If you sit around and meditate or use a bunch of LSD or use some other 
method(s) of self-realization, you may catch a glimpse of what they're 
talking about (you may see yourSelf).  It's then that you'll probably 
understand better how "killing your ego" and "giving things up" helps 
spiritual progress.
 
My advice:  sing, fly hang gliders, run around in the forest.  What people 
say is bad about seeking pleasure is that it keeps you bonded to the 
material world.  But I don't think anyone can give up the material world 
until they've seen what's beyond.  That's an experience...  something you 
have to see for yourself in order to use it in your life.  In the mean 
time, just have fun.
 
If you're still curious about why people believe what they believe, you 
could try reading autobiographies of people who became enlightened or 
became gurus or something.  That'd let you read about the experiences that 
lead them to believe what they believe. 
Date: 27 Apr 98 15:40:49 +0000 
From: "Paul West" <paulATnospamstationone.demon.co.uk> 
To: kundalini-lATnospamexecpc.com 
Subject: Re: allnighter 
Message-Id: <3544A700.MD-0.196.paulATnospamstationone.demon.co.uk> 
 
> I spent about 8 years pulling 12 hour all nighters as a nurse in  
> critical units in hospitals. Seems like a lot of people die just before  
> the sun comes up. Don't know if that qualifies for spiritual liberation.
 
Hmm. I have never had much to do with death myself. When I retook my 
GCSE English Language course when I started college there was a woman 
who had cancer and was dying and I found out later she had died but I 
didn't feel particularly upset. I remember also being in hospital for 
an x-ray (i think) many years ago and seeing down the end of the 
corridoor a man laying on a portable bed and I think he was dead. But 
other than that I don't know anyone who has died and haven't seen anyone 
dead and I think that's a bit unusual.
 
> I actually got healthier once I turned my internal clock around from  
> night to day.  Rather than staying up all night i would recommend  
> getting up around 430 AM which is about the time I awaken naturally.
 
You wake up at 4:30 naturally? Blimey. Although I like mornings 
occasionally I'm not really a morning person, I don't usually feel up 
to facing the world until I've got up and been up some hours so that I 
feel settled and awake and unrushed.
 
> If you go outside you can feel the change in the earth as the sun goes  
> up.  There is an instant where the earth changes from yin to yang, there  
> is a silent outbreath from Gaia right before the sun comes up. Its an  
> eternal still moment...very quiet.
 
I do remember that morning being very quiet.
 
-- 
Paul. 
Date: 27 Apr 98 16:18:26 +0000 
From: "Paul West" <paulATnospamstationone.demon.co.uk> 
To: kundalini-lATnospamexecpc.com 
Subject: Spirit guide 
Message-Id: <3544AFD2.MD-0.196.paulATnospamstationone.demon.co.uk> 
 
Hello.
 
I've been on the internet for just over a week now and have been 
monitoring this mailing list for nearly as long. I thought I might 
relate to you what happened when I tried to contact a spirit guide a 
few years ago.
 
I had only just started my spiritual awakening back at the end of 1994 
and was doing a lot of intellectual inquiry. I was looking into just 
about anything unusual, paranormal, mystical, esoteric, or whatever. I 
had been attempting to have out of body experiences, with minor 
success and was very `into' the discovery of new realities, some of 
which was not pleasant at the time.
 
One time came when a friend I was talking to via electronic 
communication means talked of something he did to get in contact with 
a spirit guide. He had composed a kind of meditation in which he 
imagined himself on a sandy shore watching a boat came in, and on the 
boat was supposed to be a guide who he would them talk to. I had got a 
book from my local library about self-hypnosis so I decided to combine 
the two.
 
I sat at my computer one afternoon and wrote a script for a 
self-hypnosis, bases on some of the methods in the book. It started 
with number counting and going down in a lift and so on. It then 
progressed to a beautiful walk in a paradisical place with clear 
waters in which I swam and lazing under the palm trees and stuff. 
There were other parts designed to remove fears such as a large moth 
which landed on me and then I brushed it away with affirmations of it 
having gone. I then would proceed down a path to the golden shore with 
crystal clear blue-green waters. Then on the horizon would appear 
something which would transform eventually into a small boat and as it 
got closer I would make out a guide. I would then supposedly talk with 
him and ask him (or her) and ask them questions.
 
By the time I finished writing the script, the writing of it /itself/ 
had had a partial hypnotic effect on me and I was feeling extremely 
relaxed and happy. It was a very positive creative process. That night 
I got out the tape recorder and began to commit the text to tape. It 
was difficult and I felt so nervous I kept stumbling on the words, and 
I was sure it must look a bit silly to anyone who might be listening 
in. It was a real struggle and took a lot of determination, which 
itself was a useful tool. Once completed I relaxed a while and then 
came back to it as the hours were just past midnight.
 
I started first doing simple relaxation like I had been doing for my 
out of body experienc attempts, as well as some simple yoga which I 
had found to have an additional relaxing effect. I lay on the bed with 
headphones on and began the tape. I listened to it, it wasn't done 
very well but I tried to follow what it was suggesting. The sound of 
my own voice almost put me off so I had to be even more focussed. I 
went through the various visualisations and it was extremely relaxing, 
even more than what I was used to with the OOBE attempts. I got all 
the way through to the end but I didn't /seem/ to be hypnotised. I 
figured I'd done my best but that it just didn't really work so I went 
to bed.
 
In the night I had a dream. It started with me standing on a square of 
concrete surrounded by brick walls with a roaring ocean lapping at all 
sides. Then my mother appeared and I hugged her really big like I 
hadn't seen her for a long time. Then there was this scene in which 
from a distance I saw my mum and dad laying under a bush and I thought 
they were dead but they got up and came over and told me they were 
worried about me and that I should have told them where I was and 
stuff.
 
Following this I entered a kind of hypnogigic state which you could 
call an out of body experience except i wasn't /completely/ out of 
body. My arms were outstretched into the air. At this point in my life 
my bed was up against the wall so if I had touched anything it would 
have been physically impossible in the normal world. And yet, I found 
a hand of a man. It was big, and it implied (in comparison to my 
physical body) that this man was very tall (8-10 feet!). His hand was 
huge, it was his left hand. Slowly I explored the hand, feeling around 
the fingers and the fleshyness of it. I then found the fingernails 
which were large and manly. I felt a great sense of peace and that 
there was no agenda, only freedom. I explored further the hand and 
eventually I had found enough of it that I went go grip. I gripped the 
hand and it gripped mine as if doing a hand-shake, and I think we 
/did/ do a handshake. Then I woke up fully in the physical. My hands 
at first felt detatched, still in the other world. But then I looked 
to see where they were, they were tucked up tighly under the 
bedcovers. And for the man to have been there in the physical world he 
would have had to have been /inside/ the bed and the wall. I was very 
happy at this point so none of that really mattered, it just was real.
 
So it seemed that after all my attempt to contact someone succeeded. I 
recall also that right at the end of the dream which came beforehand 
the man said to me "I thought we'd lost you there for a moment".
 
I have had other things happen to me over the last few years. I was 
comically woken one morning by a voice which said "psst" and which 
originated from the center of my skull right between both ears. 
Another morning I was woken by a serious woman's voice saying hello. 
Not many months ago when things were getting rough in life a similar 
large man's hand gently rested on my shoulder and touched me to the 
extent that it felt physical.
 
-- 
Paul. 
Date: Mon, 27 Apr 1998 11:23:48 -0400 
From: melintonATnospamalison.sbc.edu 
To: kundalini-lATnospamlists.execpc.com 
Subject: *even* in the NORTH! 
Message-Id: <l03130302b16a5113a4b9ATnospam[198.28.38.107]> 
Content-Type: text/plain; charset="us-ascii"
 
> 
>I remember being at an "Undoing Racism" workshop I had to attend for my job 
>at the time. I was pretty ignorant about the extent that racism still 
>permeates society, even in the North.
 
amckeon:
 
PLEASE don't get into this with me! I am so godamm sick of sanctimonius 
white Yankees assuming that just because of their geographic location they 
are somehow above & beyond feelings of discomfort with people of different 
backgounds!
 
It just ain't so and in *fact* blacks & whites have been living shoulder to 
shoulder in the South for several centuries now, whereas all the 
enlightened people who live in the the NORTH for the most part have had 
*comparatively* little contact with black people.
 
gosh! I wonder who has more experience facing their differences and working 
out problems? Could it be Southerners? Why yes! I believe it is ...
 
South bashing is the LAST acceptable prejudice in America and on this list 
at least I'm bringing it to a screeching halt!
 
--Signalfire
 
The web site you seek 
cannot be located but 
endless others exist 
  ---- Joy Rothke from Haiku 
    Error Message competition at Salon 
Date: 27 Apr 98 15:51:30 +0000 
From: "Paul West" <paulATnospamstationone.demon.co.uk> 
To: kundalini-lATnospamexecpc.com 
Subject: Re: kundalini-l (was RE: unsuscribe) 
Message-Id: <3544A982.MD-0.196.paulATnospamstationone.demon.co.uk> 
 
Kurt:
 
> Does anyone else think that we are loosing the forest for the trees in this  
> list? I think it's sad that each week (perhaps each day) we lose another  
> person who apparently had a genuine interest in kundalini because they  
> can't keep up with the message traffic - 90% of which is not directly  
> kundalini related (oh yes, I remember kundalini embraces all of life).
 
I feel a little responsible for this noise myself although I am NOT 
totally to `blame'. I know that I find it hard to use individual lists 
or newsgroups for talking exclusively about a particular topic. I 
don't feel that such exclusion is natural or realistic. I usually talk 
about a whole selection of things in all of the lists of groups I am 
connected to, lots and lots of overlapping of topics. I have always 
been like this myself. I know it would be useful to many people as you 
say to have a dedicated kundalini list that is only to do with 
kundalini in a kind of serious, almost scientific sort of way, but I 
feel for me at least that such an approach is in some ways also 
against the very holisticity of it all. Some people find it real easy 
to talk about one topic in focus but I personally do not. I hope I 
haven't driven anyone away, I know I to talk about myself rather a 
lot. But even in amongst the fun and `chat' there are very serious 
avenues as well and I think the two belong together.
 
> Some of us are subscribed because we are genuinely interested in kundalini  
> - not because we are looking for a chat room or because we are looking for  
> a `` spiritual group''. Unfortunately (in my mind) as time has gone on the  
> focus of conversation has gone farther and farther away from kundalini. As  
> a result to many of those WHO ACTUALLY ARE INTERESTED IN KUNDALINI get up  
> and leave. Leaving the list to those who are interested in ... well, how  
> would you characterize it?
 
This strikes me as sounding a little like my sister who will often 
turn up the volume on the TV if she thinks too many people are talking 
rather than learning to concentrate. However, no offence or anything, 
I do think there are people who just want a safe haven, a spiritual 
group, a place free of restraint, and that can lead to a bit of ego 
coming through and a lack of disciplin. Still, people are at different 
stages with their kundalini, some find it plays a major part in their 
life and others find it is just something stirring in the background.
 
> I'd like to hear publicly or privately from the members about this.  
> Whenever I get in side discussions I hear recurrently that people are  
> disappointed at the amount of chatting volume - but whenever the question  
> is raised at large people tend to be afraid to raise a fuss but as a vote  
> of one I feel that the signal to noise ratio of the list is way out of  
> hand.
 
I empathise with you. Personally when choosing which forum to post a 
certain message in I do have several to choose from so hopefully all 
the kundalini-related things end up on the k list and other stuff ends 
up on other `spiritual group' lists. Anyway, it depends also on what 
other people think which I don't know about.
 
-- 
Paul. 
Date: Mon, 27 Apr 1998 01:11:57 -0700 
From: Mystress Angelique Serpent <serpentATnospamdomin8rex.com> 
To: "keutzerATnospameecs.berkeley.edu" <keutzerATnospameecs.berkeley.edu> 
Cc: "kundalini-lATnospamexecpc.com" <kundalini-lATnospamexecpc.com> 
Subject: K-list posting Members pay attention!! 
Message-Id: <3.0.5.32.19980427011157.00862330ATnospamdomin8rex.com> 
Content-Type: text/plain; charset="us-ascii"
 
 Hello: 
   Kurt, I am entirely in agreement with you, and have been weighing in my 
mind what to do about it. I was gone for a few days and I came back to 
nearly 700 messages.. not all of them were K-list mail, but the majority 
were. We are up to five or 6 digests per day, at >32k each.  
  I have been watching the traffic slowly creeping up for a while, but that 
was really a wake up call that it is out of control.  
  That is simply too much for anyone to keep up with. Scanning the digests, 
there was a lot of noise..  
  (Glo+ Jerry.. Get a room. Lobster.. stop picking fights. I am getting 
requests to unsub you again.. it's nice to take folks apart to see what 
makes 'em tick, but you must be able to put them together again.. focus on 
your own healing and stop looking for the mote in the eye of another. 
Please.)  
  
  What is up, is personal experiences, (Loba and Paul) and I think this is 
a good thing, tho perhaps our new members need to be aware that this is a 
list of about 400 folks.. bandwidth is a valuable resource, so share nice 
and don't be greedy. We understand about the enthusiasm of newness.. 
thankyou for posting but hopefully it has worn off a little.  :)
 
  I have been aware of list traffic creeping up up up and that is why on 
occasion I have singled out those who do not snip.. in a vain effort to 
slow the inevitable traffic increase as the member numbers go up.  
   But lack of snippage was not the main reason for the massive traffic 
lately.. and I hate to squash folks enthusiasm, but 5 digests a day is Too 
much!  
  One thought I have had, is to split the list. The first split was the 
K-sex list, and it is doing well, tho it is a private list and there is no 
cross-posting. It has evolved into it's own separate entity..  
  The K-phenomena list seems to have died.. not for lack of enthusiasm, it 
had over 40 members.. but the server seems to be dead.. (It was a free 
service.. so whaddya want for nothing?? ) While it was active it was a good 
list. 
 
  I have been considering how to subdivide the list in order to give it 
more room to grow. It is only going to keep getting bigger.. sorry, but I 
see it as inevitable.. we are in a k-flare wave across the planet. Age of 
Aquarius and all that.. mass consciousness shift.. the exponential growth 
of the 'net.  
  The only other option is for me to begin moderating traffic, and I don't 
wanna. Sorry. 
  The only traffic I would be interested in moderating, is the cross 
posting between the lists, if they are split.. only because I don't want 
another Heartzen type avalanche.. folks hit "reply to all" without looking 
at who "all" includes.. defeating the purpose of having separate lists. 
However, better spam proofing would help that cause.. 
 
  My initial thoughts are to create several new lists, more specialized to 
the various interests I have seen cropping up repeatedly. One would be the 
new K-phenomena list, and perhaps a K-sanskrit list. Another K-sex list 
that is a bit less intimate and does not require a vote to get into.. and 
mebbie a K-support list for those seeking the comfort of chatting about 
daily k-inspired stuff in a supportive environment. Mebbie even a K-poetry 
list.. and one for folks who like to forward stuff they haven't written 
themselves. (eh, Lobster?) But a website is a better place for it.  
  Folks who have the time and inclination will subscribe to all or several 
of them. Or look at them in the archives.   
  I am just brainstorming at this point.. and looking for suggestions.. 
privately please.. let's not waste too much bandwidth on the issue of 
bandwidth. I'll report back the results..  
   
  This split if it happens won't be tomorrow or next week.. and migration 
to other lists will be voluntary, of course.. and in the meantime I would 
ask folks to consider these points before you hit Queue and fire a post off 
to the list:  
   What percentage of the 400 members of this list is this post likely to 
be of interest to? If it is less than 10 percent, reconsider how the other 
90% will feel having to download and open a message that is of no interest 
to them. 
  Consensuality... the reason they agreed to receive your mail.. was 
because you joined a list that talks about kundalini.. not noisy neighbors 
and potato salad. Tho these too may be about Kundalini.. Goddess is All 
that Is.. but think twice and thrice before loading the mailboxes of 400 
folks with trivia.. Pleeeze on my knees for the wellbeing and health of the 
list, send more mail direct!   
   Ask yourself: Is it really about your kundalini experience? Is this 
information that is likely to be helpful, useful or interesting to the 
majority of list members?  
  Novices understandably need to talk about their symptoms and events to 
know that they are normal.. and learn to relax and go with the flow..  the 
list will always be responsive to cries for help.. but that is not what is 
overloading the mailboxes and causing folks to flee.. it is simply the chat 
noises. The petty arguments about a small point of language. The 
conversations that would be better taken off the list to be resolved.. you 
can always post to the list after of your conclusions, if you come to any..
 
  I have always held the reins very lightly on this list.. figuring that a 
gathering of partially or whatever enlightened beings ought to function 
perfectly as a civilized anarchy.. and I do hate to be stifling folks 
creative expressions.. as Kurt sez we try to be tactful.. but the list is 
growing too big for some practicality. 
 
  Ask yourself before posting, is the post "service to self" or "service to 
other"? 
  Is it vanity of wanting attention, sympathy, or to appear intelligent, 
perceptive, witty or charming, or is it in service to the needs and 
interests of the list members?  
  Basically, where is the ego involvement in posting?  
  K-fire brings up ego issues, sho-nuff, and looking at them is what we 
do.. so I think rethinking communications on the list in this way is a good 
basic guideline for posting. 
  If you are looking for assistance for yourself wrestling with your ego, 
then post.. but if you are trying to look cute, witty or have spontaneously 
decided to be a guru for somebody who hasn't asked for one, please 
reconsider your ego needs and spare us the bandwidth.  
  I don't want to be unkind.. but what Kurt is speaking of, I have seen 
coming for a while. More members means more traffic, and more traffic means 
playing closer attention to the "rules of the road". It has room for us all 
to go places, if we share it courteously. 
 
  Some rules to watch out for:
 
   Oversize vehicles: Post resent unsnipped take up a lotta room and are 
irritatingly boring and repetitive. Trust the members to have the brains to 
remember what went before, and delete all but a line or two of the post you 
are responding to. Or, even, all of it. 
 
   Expired licence plates: Too often a thread changes radically and the 
subject header stays the same.. this is particularly annoying when the 
original header said "Autopost from the KRC". The original poster has no 
choice of the subject line, so please change it to reflect their name and 
topic. Example:  <Subject: Joe, neck shivers.(was KRC post)> 
  A subject header appropriate to the topic makes it more likely your post 
will get read. Look at it this way.. folks might abandon a thread that does 
not interest them, and it may change to one that does and they will never 
know.. coz the subject has not changed. 
 
  Ego drunk driving without a licence.. the thing to watch out for... if we 
keep that one down, I think everything else will take care of itself..  
    Blessings Mystress.
 
At 06:57 PM 26/04/98 -0700, Kurt Keutzer wrote: 
>Does anyone else think that we are loosing the forest for the trees in this  
>list?  
<...> 
Whenever I get in side discussions I hear recurrently that people are  
>disappointed at the amount of chatting volume - but whenever the question  
>is raised at large people tend to be afraid to raise a fuss but as a vote  
>of one I feel that the signal to noise ratio of the list is way out of  
>hand. 
>Kurt
 
 
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